Sunday, August 20, 2023

Sermon: When Jesus Called a Woman a "Dog"

Introduction

Cultural Foundations for Ethics and Morality

As much as we may want to believe that we have an objective view of ethics and morality, the fact is that many things which we discern as good or bad, acceptable or not, normal or abnormal, are cultural constructs. Many of these are used as identity markers. They draw boundaries between who belongs and who doesn’t belong.

Can women wear pants? Depending on when and where in history, this had moral and ethical implications, and in some circles, they still do.[1]

Men and growing a beard or not had moral implications and may still.[2]

Is it better to eat with forks, spoons, and knives; or is it acceptable for adults to eat with their hands? Should you eat pizza with your hands, or cut it into pieces with a knife and fork? How you prefer to dine and how you view the use of utensils vs. hands offers an insight into culture and belonging, and in some cases may also carry ethical connotations.

The relative importance between individual freedom vs. collective action is another ethical and even moral consideration for a society and culture. Different societies and cultures place different values. One society might look at another’s and be quite convinced theirs is right and the other is wrong, and vice versa.

These are just a few examples.

Language as Encoders of Culture and Tradition

Furthermore, the language and words that we use are also a part of our culture and tradition. Even when we limit our examination to just English, we see diversity around the world in words and phrases. Within the United States, there are differences among regions. How we say things can be identity markers. These extend to professions, economic and class differences, and racial and ethnic differences.

Words can and are used to divide, harm, and hurt. This is especially true between groups that differ in their available societal power. Those with more power use words to protect their own position while keeping others down. This can be intentional, but it can also be quite unintentional. The words and ways of speaking by those in higher power positions are often absorbed unconsciously because those things said are the norm in that environment.

 

Problems of Blind Adherence to Tradition

The focus of today’s gospel reading is the story of the Canaanite woman and Jesus, the last part of the reading. But the extended reading before the story provides an important context that strengthens the surprises found in the story.

The first part of the reading involves the Pharisees and scribes coming to Jesus to ask why his disciples do not follow the tradition of the elders of washing their hands before they eat. Walter T. Wilson in his commentary on this text notes that handwashing was not a universal Jewish custom during 1st century CE, but most closely associated with the Pharisees; making this ritual a sectarian identifier.[3] This leads to the implied conclusion that Jesus and his disciples were associated with the Pharisaic group, or at least seen to be most closely identified with that group.

Jesus’ rebuttal is a counterargument. He throws a question at the questioners: why do you place the tradition of the vow of Korban above the commandment to honor one’s father and mother? Jesus referred to a method of vowing Korban that could be used to sever one’s ties with family (it’s complicated and a malicious use of vows).[4] Jesus questions how a tradition, even one that involves a vow to God, could circumvent a commandment from God?

A short summary of this first debate is 1) the Pharisees ask how Jesus and his disciples could be part of the household of Pharisees, if they do not observe the proper ethical boundary markers passed down through tradition; and 2) Jesus rebuts by providing an example where an ethical and moral tradition in fact can be used to destroy a household. Jesus’ assertion is that the observance of tradition is relativized to its value in maintaining relationships.

Problems of Judging by Externals

The second part of the reading relates to the first in that it begins with the concept of eating something that may not be ritually clean, such as food eaten using unwashed hands (but the Markan version of this discourse includes unclean food categories as well). Jesus takes the argument about the boundary marker of ritual purity and turns it into a discussion about the ethics of speech. What one eats merely comes out as physical waste, but speech can destroy people, relationships, and community.

A summary of this section is 1) the Pharisees are solely concerned with external markers of purity; but 2) they mean nothing in terms of what true purity is. True purity is what is in the heart, and the evidence is found in the words that come out through speech.

 

Story of the Canaanite Woman and Jesus

It is with this prelude of tradition and speech that we come to the story of the Canaanite woman and Jesus’ interaction with her.

The setting changes. Jesus is in the district of Tyre and Sidon, outside of the physical borders of the Jewish region. The narrator uses the term “Canaanite” to refer to the historical animosity between Israelites and Canaanites, and to recall the kind of practices that were associated with them. It reminds the readers of the history of problems that the Israelites had with keeping their religious practices pure and undefiled by Canaanite practices and gods. It also evokes the insider-outsider distinction, where the Jews are in favor with God and the Canaanites are outside of God’s favor.

Jesus Does Not Act Like He Usually Does

We next see the woman coming to Jesus and shouting at him, “Have mercy on me, Lord, Son of David; my daughter is tormented by a demon.” The act of a woman approaching a man directly, especially one who is not a family member, and a foreigner, it believed to have violated numerous social norms and boundaries. One commentator explains,

The woman’s behavior is unacceptable. Her culture expects women to be reserved in public. When she not only takes the initiative but also shouts her demand at Jesus, she violates social norms. Social affronts do not merit consideration, so Jesus seems to be playing by the social rules of his time when he does not even respond to her.[5]

She persists and the disciples urge Jesus to send her away. Jesus finally says something, but I read it as Jesus responding more to his disciples. The message contained is meant to be heard by the woman, but I see Jesus still avoiding a direct response to her. Another commentator opines, “In terms of civility, Jesus’ silence is the high moment of the pericope.”[6]

Jesus’ response is, “I was sent only to the lost sheep of the house of Israel.” This echoes his instructions to the disciples when they were sent out, described in Matthew chapter 10.

The woman continues to persist in her desperation. Her plea is reduced to, “Lord, help me.”

Racial Epithet

Jesus’ now responds directly to the woman, but it also hits the lowest point. “It is not fair to take the children’s food and throw it to the dogs.”

The interpretation of this response from Jesus goes all over the place. Many traditional Christian interpretations try to save Jesus from his words.

The difficulty with this text is that Jesus calls the Canaanite woman a “dog.” Scholars, theologians, and pastors have tried to tame this beast and tried to defang it. Among some of the traditional interpretations offered include:

1)     Jesus was trying to teach his disciples and really didn’t mean what he said. The woman could tell from his body language and vocal tone that he didn’t really mean it.

2)     Jesus used a specific word, “little dog,” instead of simply “dog,” so it wasn’t really an insult or a racial epithet.

3)     Jesus was testing the woman. He knew she had enough fortitude and faith to overcome an apparent insult.

More recent scholarship takes the position that Jesus did, in fact, use a racial epithet. [7] The difficulty then becomes how to reconcile the traditional position of an perfect Christ with what seems like an imperfect Jesus.

Broadly, the explanations given come down to the humanity of Jesus. In his full humanity, Jesus would have been affected by the cultural and social norms of his day and place.

Defining and Explaining Perfection

Somewhere along the way, we have created a picture of Jesus that is static: that somehow because of his divinity, he had complete human knowledge and could make no mistakes. From this assumption we get the line in Away in the Manger where it reads, “No crying he makes.” Or the story of Jesus, when he is twelve years old in the temple, totally oblivious to his family going home; but it is traditionally interpreted as Jesus doing the better thing and his parents should have known better. But the text actually seems to say that perhaps Jesus’ behavior was not correct, because he afterwards is described as being “obedient” to his parents and learning and maturing.[8]

Where we probably get the idea that Jesus was perfect from the beginning of his humanity comes to us from the Epistle to the Hebrews.

15 For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who in every respect has been tested as we are, yet without sin. (Hebrews 4:15 NRSVue)

8 Although he was a Son, he learned obedience through what he suffered, 9 and having been made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey him… (Hebrews 5:8-9 NRSVue)

But even these imply that perfection was a process that came to fruition through his experience of crucifixion.

Did Jesus Learn?

Thus, while Jesus was able to see problems with many of the social structures of his time, those were things that he would have come to see as part of his learning and maturing. There would have been many other problems that he would not have seen, simply because he had not yet encountered them. When Jesus began his public ministry, did he suddenly stop learning and developing a more mature understanding of love? Did he get rid of all his blind spots before his public ministry? Or did he continue to learn and grow?

In the current story about the Canaanite woman, we might interpret it as one of the tests that could be included in the text in Hebrews. Would Jesus recognize his blind spot and learn from his interaction? Would he correct his initial mistake, coming from a perspective of cultural and social blind spots?

The hero/heroine of this story is the woman. Despite being ignored, being insulted, being called a “dog”, she persists, and many commentators and scholars today see this woman teaching Jesus and expanding his understanding of how to love more fully. I realize this can be shocking and difficult for many of us who have years of traditional Christian teachings around Jesus. But perhaps it is not a coincidence that the earlier texts we discussed are ones critical of blind adherence to tradition and traditional teachings.

The woman helps Jesus break out of his traditional boundaries, the ones he has not recognized until this point. Through her words, she reveals faith that is in her heart.

27 She said, “Yes, Lord, yet even the dogs eat the crumbs that fall from their masters’ table.” 28 Then Jesus answered her, “Woman, great is your faith! Let it be done for you as you wish.” And her daughter was healed from that moment. (Matthew 15:27-28 NRSVue)

I wonder if by this point being seen and heard by Jesus was more important and affirming for the woman than the healing of her daughter. That the healing was the evidence that Jesus saw and heard.

Jesus’ Example for Us

I believe that the story of the Canaanite woman is Matthew’s illustration of how even Jesus could be bound by tradition and how he could judge by outward appearances, but then how he breaks through them to become more mature in love. In this way, as the writer of Hebrews explains, Jesus can relate to us and “sympathize with our weaknesses.”

The woman was an outsider, one that is initially depicted as having a wrong religion, and one who acts against social and cultural norms. Yet she was the one who had a better and more expansive vision of God’s love and inclusiveness.

Jesus, who was fully divine, was humble in his humanity to recognize his blind spots, could accept instruction and teaching from someone who initially didn’t appear to have anything to offer, and learn from his human mistakes.

We have our traditions, cultures, and social norms that we use to judge people. They blind us to opportunities to love and learn. Perhaps the best way to love someone is not necessarily to offer something to them, but when we take the time to see them as complete human persons, and to learn from them and accept what they have to offer us.



[3] Wilson, Walter T., The Gospel of Matthew (Eerdmans Critical Commentary), on Matthew 15:1-20 (Kindle version, location approximately 1258).

[4] Cairus, Aecio E., “The Heartless Corban Vow”, Asia Adventist Seminary Studies (4: 2001):3-7. Retrieved from https://journals.aiias/edu/jaas/article/download/449/398/819

[5] Feasting on the Word: Year A, Volume 3, p. 832.

[6] Ibid., p. 836.

[7] McGrath, James F., What Jesus Learned from Women, “The Syrophoenician Woman”, p. 87-107.

[8] Luke 2:41-52.

No comments: