Sunday, May 07, 2023

Sermon: In My Father's House

Lectionary: Easter 5A
Text: John 14:1-14

Introduction

I recently watched lectures on ancient religions of Mesopotamia and the Mediterranean, which included the period of Rome from the formation of the Republic to when Christianity became her state religion. There were many times during the lectures when I could see connections between what was being said and the texts in our Bible. Today, I want us to take a brief excursion back in time to ancient Rome. I think it may offer some insights into today’s gospel reading (John 14:1-14) and aid us in improving our understanding of the text. There are so many details that are interesting, but we will keep to broad topics that are most relevant to us for today’s text. I also add a caveat: the Roman context is helpful in understanding how the text was probably heard, but we should not assume it is something to be reverted to and emulated.

Time Travel: Ancient Roman Household

First, let us travel to explore a Roman house. We will look at one that belongs to a prominent and wealthy citizen.

The structure is rectangular, with walls around three sides and the front being more open. There is an entry in the center of the front section and several open stalls flanking the center. These stalls are used for commerce and retail business as they face the public street. The three remaining sides are solid and, in our example, have a height of two floors.

There is an image at the entrance, the Lar Familiaris, or the guardian deity of the household. From the entry a narrow hallway led to the atrium, where an opening was found in the roof and a pool was located immediately below to collect rainwater. The atrium was a semi-public area where guests could be entertained, and official household business was conducted.  

Farther back was another courtyard with the roof open. The kitchen and the dining areas are found off this area.

All around the perimeter are found other rooms, on both the ground floor and the upper floor. These are bedrooms for the household members. The household consists of the paterfamilias, the head of the household, his wife, adult sons and their wives, daughters who had not yet married, servants, and slaves. The paterfamilias was father to them all.

Gods and Paterfamilias

The house was inhabited by numerous household deities. The house was, effectively, a domestic temple. All aspects of life were connected to one god or another. One of the primary duties of the paterfamilias was to ensure that proper ritual and offerings were observed so that the gods would be cared for and not get angry. Even though the paterfamilias was the head of the household, he was at the mercy of the ancestral gods and spirits. Just as it was important to maintain honor and avoid shame among living persons, it was perhaps even more important to maintain good relationships with the dead. Bringing honor to the paterfamilias and the house was something that all members of the household, from sons to slaves, accepted and carried out.

It was believed that every person had an indwelling and animating spirit within them. This was an aspect of a deity that was carried by each person. Men had a genius (from which we get the word, genius). Women had a juno. The genius of the paterfamilias was particularly important, and it was a duty of the entire household to offer worship to this genius. In their mythologies, even gods could have a genius – a spirit of a deity within a god.

Roman Marriage

The household gods and the domestic religious observances were passed down from the father to the eldest, legitimate son. The purpose of marriage in ancient Rome was solely to produce legitimate heirs. Arranging for and ensuring that the marriage of his sons was conducted properly was one of the primary duties of the father. Daughters were thought of essentially as temporary occupants of a house who would be sent off to their permanent homes through marriage.

The fathers of each household came together to arrange the marriage and negotiate terms. A wedding date was set. The wedding itself took place at the bride’s father’s home. After completing the prescribed religious rituals, and offering was made to Jupiter, usually a cake. A portion of this cake was consumed by the bride and groom, followed by a dinner with all of the guests. After dinner the bride was escorted to the new husband’s house, accompanied by anyone who wanted to join in the torchlight procession. The groom carried the bride over the threshold because it was considered a bad omen if the bride tripped and fell in her first entry to the house. Another feast was held at the new household. For as long as the father was alive, however, the married son was still under the authority of the father, as long as he was paterfamilias. The primary role of a wife was to produce legitimate children, preferably sons. She also managed domestic duties and cared for her children.

This concludes our very brief excursion back in time. As we return to our present time, we should keep in mind that this was the “air” of those living in the ancient Roman empire. These religious, social, and domestic structures, traditions, and norms were the frameworks in which they understood and interpreted their life and reality. This was the context in which the gospel of John was written, and in which the audience heard the words.

Back to the Present

Many Mansions?

My childhood Bible translation was the King James Version. The first part of John 14:2 in that version reads, “In My Father’s house are many mansions.” As a child, I recall being taught how people who are saved and go to heaven will have grand mansions with huge properties on which each sit. Looking at it now, it seems to be an image that is influenced more by individualism, independence, and American values.

Rather, the image we ought to see is the Roman house and household. The NIV translates the text as, “My Father’s house has many rooms.” And that fits much better into the Roman world and its social and domestic structures. God is the paterfamilias, and he has room for all of his household.

Marriage Metaphor

When Jesus says, “When I go to prepare a place for you, I will return and take you to be with me so that where I am you will be too,” his saying can be interpreted as a marriage metaphor. The wedding has already taken place, here on earth. One could view the Last Supper as a kind of wedding meal. But that is just the first step of the marriage process. The bride must get to the groom’s house.

And here the metaphors get a bit mixed, at least in my opinion. On one hand, Jesus will return to take his people back to his house. But on the other hand, the language is that of a journey that must be undertaken by the bride. When Jesus says, “You know the way to the place I’m going,” he is not talking about map directions, literal or metaphorical. The word we read as “way” is a term used in classical Greek literature to talk about an odyssey or a journey, frequently at the beginning and the end of a quest.

“I am the Way”

It is in response to Thomas’ lack of understanding and question that Jesus says, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.” This statement has often been used in some parts of Christianity to support an exclusivist view of salvation; that is, one must literally believe in and accept Jesus and become a Christian in order to be saved.

The PC(USA) takes a more inclusivist stance:

Jesus Christ is the only Savior and Lord, and all people everywhere are called to place their faith, hope, and love in him. No one is saved by virtue of inherent goodness or admirable living, for “by grace you have been saved through faith, and this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God” [Ephesians 2:8]. No one is saved apart from God’s gracious redemption in Jesus Christ. Yet we do not presume to limit the sovereign freedom of “God our Savior, who desires everyone to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth” [1 Timothy 2:4]. Thus, we neither restrict the grace of God to those who profess explicit faith in Christ nor assume that all people are saved regardless of faith. Grace, love, and communion belong to God, and are not ours to determine.[1]

When Jesus speaks about himself as the way, he is referring to his recorded life, death, and resurrection. The way is not about getting to a destination. It is about following in the patterns of relating and responding to the world that Jesus forged ahead of us. Later in this Farewell Discourse, Jesus reveals that the Holy Spirit will be sent. With that, the paradox of Jesus going away, yet still leading his people to the Father, is resolved. As long as one is following the way of Jesus and the promptings of the Holy Spirit, they will find their way to the Father and his house.

Indwelling of God

The next several sentences in John are of Jesus describing how he and the Father are one.

If you really know me, you will know my Father as well. From now on, you do know him and have seen him.”

Philip said, “Lord, show us the Father and that will be enough for us.”

Jesus answered: “Don’t you know me, Philip, even after I have been among you such a long time? Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say, ‘Show us the Father’? 10 Don’t you believe that I am in the Father, and that the Father is in me? The words I say to you I do not speak on my own authority. Rather, it is the Father, living in me, who is doing his work. (John 14:7-10 NIV)

Earlier in our time travel back, we learned that the idea that deities could dwell in people and deities could dwell within other gods was a commonly understood concept. Even though the gospel writer avoids direct references to pagan terminology and concepts, the metaphor is one that would have been readily understandable.

How can we know that the Father is just like Jesus? Because the Father is in Jesus. The Father is directing all of Jesus’ words and works. Where Christianity diverges from Roman understanding of gods is the mutual indwelling of the Father in Jesus and Jesus in the Father, simultaneously.

Returning to the marriage metaphor, perhaps many brides would have been apprehensive about entering a new household, under a new paterfamilias. Even though marriages were most often arranged, there was some opportunity for dating or getting to know one another. Perhaps the bride, even though she may have been as young as early to mid-teens, may have come to trust her future husband. But what about his father? What is he like? Even though there are often character resemblances between fathers and sons, they are not identical and could turn out to be quite different.

Jesus tells his anxious disciples that he and his Father are truly identical in character. The vital, animating spirit is mutually indwelling. Immediately beyond the reading for today, Jesus describes how the disciples will have the Holy Spirit dwelling in them, and because of that Jesus will be a part of them. And more astonishingly, the disciples will be in Jesus.

House is a Temple is a Person

What I see in this first part of the discourse is Jesus describing a new household to which his followers will enter. But this house is not something physical or even future. The house is Jesus himself. Just as the ancient Roman household was each, individually a temple, so is Jesus. We can go back to John 2:19 and see where very early in the gospel, Jesus speaks of himself as the temple.

It is this context of household and a temple, where loyalty to the paterfamilias is assumed, that we need to place the final sentences from today’s reading:

12 Very truly I tell you, whoever believes in me will do the works I have been doing, and they will do even greater things than these, because I am going to the Father. 13 And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. 14 You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it. (John 14:12-14 NIV)

These words are being spoken to those in the family. Whatever work and business each member of the family is undertaking, the goal is the same: to bring honor and glory to the head of the household. For Christians, our paterfamilias is God. Jesus’ name is not some kind of formula or magical spell. Jesus’ name is our devotion to God and the way of life that Jesus demonstrated, while leading to death to the ways of this world, ultimately leads to resurrection and life.

References

·        The Fall of the Pagans and the Origins of Medieval Christianity (Wondrium, The Great Courses), Professor Kenneth W. Harl, Tulane University

·        Pompeii: Daily Life in an Ancient Roman City (Wondrium, The Great Courses), Professor Steven L. Tuck, Miami University

·        The Other Side of History: Daily Life in the Ancient World (Wondrium, The Great Courses), Professor Robert Garland, Colgate University

·        The Pagan World: Ancient Religions before Christianity (Wondrium, The Great Courses), Professor Hans-Friedrich Mueller Union College in Schenectady, New York

·        Roman Marriage and Weddings | UNRV (https://www.unrv.com/culture/roman-marriage.php)

·        Roman domestic architecture (domus) (article) | Khan Academy (https://www.khanacademy.org/humanities/ancient-art-civilizations/roman/x7e914f5b:beginner-guides-to-roman-architecture/a/roman-domestic-architecture-domus)

·        The Roman Domus (House): Architecture and Reconstruction (realmofhistory.com) (https://www.realmofhistory.com/2020/04/08/3d-animations-layout-roman-domus-house/)

 


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